Part of being a best man starts with you looking yourself in the mirror. Helping your fellow brother out. When you see a man down and out – help him up off the ground. Pray with him if you find your spirit leading you to that. Bless him with some words of encouragement. That $10 dollar bill that you have in your pocket might be the blessing he needs.

I see too many men not being a man of integrity, man of their word, and stable. I didn’t even mention a little too feminine. I don’t know if it’s the water or something the government sprayed in the air but there is too much flaw **ish going on these days. Women have nearly lost all hope in men and aren’t even supporting us anymore. Why should they? We have to support each other first?

Am I My Brother’s Keeper?

Bet you thought that this article was going to be a “How To” for men, in regards to women. Wrong. Well, indirectly it is because I want to address the issues that men face. And as a man who else is better to speak out loud then a man himself. In ancient times all a man had to do was go out and hunt so that he could bring home the bacon. Now, a man has to be about to hunt for checks or a job, be sensitive provide, protect, Casanova and preach at home.

When A Man Loves

He will break his back for a woman. Give his last dollar to a friend. Kill for his children. Work overtime to pay the bills. Protect his family with his mind, body, and spirit. A real man will do whatever it takes to make sure that his family is A-OK!

5 Steps To Becoming “The BEST Man” You Can Be:

1. Spiritual Powers: We are all born with spiritual gifts. Learn what your gifts are and utilize them to improve your surroundings. Your spirituality is essential for growth in the physical and unseen world. There is a lot more going on in life then you can see with the human eye.

2. Lead: Most men are born leaders. Lead by your actions and not with your mouth. Women love a man that can lead them, for the most part, because a man is the leader of the home. A shaky leader is a sure sign of destruction that is soon to come.

3. Improve Your Space: Take pride in what you own. Whether its a one room shack, an efficiency, or a yacht. You will notice that your swagg will increase substantially once you take PRIDE of where you lay your head.

4. Pick Your Game Up: Every year you should aim to improve your status in life. Pickup a new book, take a new course, and meet new people that can actually connect the dots to where you want to be in life. This includes getting rid of your friends that are counter productive.

5. Man of God: The best way to learn about who you are and what you are called to do is to speak to the creator. Who is better to guide you through your pit falls? God alone is my rock and salvation, my secure height; I shall never fall. Psalms 62:2

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